December
2006
OBITUARY
FOR
BYRNE Cornelius Gwydir Aloysius
1943-46
Prepared by his brother Rod Byrne
1942
Con
was diagnosed with prostate and bladder cancer and had radiation
and chemo-therapy. The latter stages of chemo really knocked him
for a six. He entered the Mater in June to get over the chemo thinking
he’d be there only a short time. However he died at 9.30am
on November 11 having received the last rites just ten minutes
before.
Both
of us were born in Roma roughly three years apart. Con very early
in life showed one of his very special attributes, namely a tremendous
ability to remember events, faces and names.He was a real scholar
in that he studied several languages through all his life. Even
after he retired, he studied Hebrew, Greek and German at the University.
He was already very fluent in Italian, which he learned for his
overseas trip in 1963.
Con
made friends easily and had many of them. Most were really long-time
friends; a large number from his school days at Mt Carmel, Charters
Towers, Downlands, Toowoomba and Nudgee here in Brisbane.
Sadly,
Con never married but he was a sort of surrogate father to my four
girls, whom he spoiled rotten. He was more than just an adult to
all the children of his friends - he was their friend too.
And
so to music. Con and I grew up with classical music. We heard classics
almost entirely and we didn’t even have a radio until after
1939. So Con grew up loving the classics. He learned and attained
professional competence on the violin and spent countless hours
all his life, practising. One of the saddest days was when he had
to give it away because of arthritis in his wrist. But when one
door closed, Con opened another.
He
had sung in the local church choir but he then decided to concentrate
on singing. He had lessons, became very competent with a big bass
voice and joined what was The Gap Choir, now called The Serenata
Singers. He became their conductor, had lessons in that too, and
for the last years just sang with them.
He
was a gentleman in the usual, and also in the literal sense. He
was a staunch Catholic and a lover of classic art in all its forms
of music, painting, writing and poetry. One of he things I will
really miss are our Sunday sessions. We’d go to 6.30 am Mass
together then alternate breakfast and a yarn at each other’s
place. We’d been doing this for some ten years since our
Mother died - even though he made terrible porridge! Con’s
special wishes were three: (i) to be home for Christmas (ii) to
sing again with The Serenata Singers and (iii) to read here in
this Church. Today I’m standing in for him and I’m
proud to be his brother.
Ed
Note:
Con wrote and arranged the music for a very beautiful Mass, which a specially
prepared choir of Old Boys sang at our 75th Anniversary Mass in the Nudgee
Chapel in 1997. |